tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4953607740696523736.post8860220457481190378..comments2023-07-21T06:19:27.125-07:00Comments on Childless by Marriage: Birth control pills and the childless womanSue Fagalde Lickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14740379397806418651noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4953607740696523736.post-30259082313941582392012-03-21T01:36:23.178-07:002012-03-21T01:36:23.178-07:00I have been using pills and plaster since we marri...I have been using pills and plaster since we married with my husband. Then after 3 years we acknowledged he is infertile - so it may seem that we used it for nothing. But as I have skin, ovary and period problems - I was advised by doctor to use them anyway. So i kept on taking the pills even though I knew I wouldnt conceive without them. But a couple of months ago doctor announced I have a fibroid - and the reason is pills. He advised to stop taking it and i had to choose between skin and period problems and growing fibroid. So, I agree with Sue - pill do have both sides...<br /><br />and as for women who think they control child birth by means of pills. In my opinion, the one who is really controlling - is God, its not in your hands to change his plan for your. I know girls who missed only one pill and conceived immediately and other girls who have been trying all means to conceive and failed. Dont think that its you who decides whether to have babies or not.Olganoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4953607740696523736.post-38713690568703621152012-01-06T08:38:45.315-08:002012-01-06T08:38:45.315-08:00The pill definitely has its good and its bad sides...The pill definitely has its good and its bad sides. Thanks for sharing this.Sue Fagalde Lickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14740379397806418651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4953607740696523736.post-37392487778833051442012-01-06T08:20:01.030-08:002012-01-06T08:20:01.030-08:00Since my "childless by a committed relationsh...Since my "childless by a committed relationship that ended when I was 38"-experience i feel really ambivalten towards the pill.<br />I call myself a feminist and i know for certain that before the pill, men would get women pregnant and then leave them - to manage all the problems, maybe have their baby taken away from them, and adding injury to insult, taking the blame. So ok the pill is great.<br />But on the other hand what happened with the pill is: <br />Men are still not taking responsibility for the baby making. Wether it's avoiding a pregnancy or actually getting pregnant - it's all up to us and some of us get betrayed. Sometimes being left alone pregnant, nowadays more often left alone wishing for a baby we'll never have.Elenanoreply@blogger.com